Interview With Sasha Graham

by | Jul 4, 2025 | GoH interviews

Parallel Press: Thanks for connecting with us, Sasha. I guess the first question would be for our readers who may not be familiar with your work, how did your journey with tarot begin?

Sasha Graham: I am a HALLOWEEN baby. I grew up feeling like a weirdo, supernatural creature so when I was 12, my elementary school did a fundraiser and I volunteered to read tarot under a tent even though I’d never touched a deck of tarot.

I ran to the mall, brought home the RWS deck and excitedly opened it. My stepsister’s Born-Again Christian friend was in the house, saw my cards, snatched them from me, ran outside, doused them with lighter fluid and lit them on fire. She told me they were the Devil’s handiwork.

At that moment, I knew I was onto something good :D!

PP: How do you get inspired to create a new deck? What’s the process for going from concept to a concrete design? 

SG: Love this question soooo much. First question is always, “What am I obsessed with?” It might be an aesthetic, a point of view, an unanswered question, or combo.

My first deck, “Tarot of the Haunted House,” from Lo Scarabeo, came about because I was collecting  softcover, gothic novellas from the 60’s & 70’s. You know, the ones with gorge ladies who are dashing away from a brooding gothic castle and/or haunted houses.

I realized the haunted house was a perfect metaphor for all of us. You, me, everyone, we are all walking jump scares. We are chock full of the secrets we hide from ourselves and others. We all have dark scary parts alongside our sunny, soaring, beautiful parts. But all of us carry deep mysteries inside ourselves. We have to uncover and unravel those uncanny, mysterious places inside ourselves in order to evolve into who we are meant to become. It can be terrifying, but it can also be lots of fun!

 

The Tarot creation process begins with me writing up a proposal (same as a book proposal), outlining the deck, including each card and the guidebook. Once I’ve sold the proposal and been contracted by a publisher, we begin the search for the perfect artist to bring my vision to life. Once an artist is secured, I send detailed descriptions of each card (like scenes from a movie) to the artist. They return a sketch of the card. The sketch portion is where notes and any changes in composition are made. Once the sketch is approved, the artist does the final coloring of the card. Voila, 78 cards later, we have a Tarot!

I’ve created 3 decks, my bestseller, “Dark Wood Tarot, ” “Tarot of the Haunted House,” and “Tarot of the Witch’s Garden” in the last 11 years. A deck usually takes at least 3 years from start to finish. 

PP: There are a lot of amazing artists who have illustrated your decks. What’s your process for finding the right artist and how do you collaborate design the deck? 

SG: I’ve worked with some of the BEST! Right now I’m finishing up a new deck, “Vampire Tarot,” with my artist from “Dark Wood,” Abigail Larson. She is my muse and inspires me endlessly.

It is a delicate balance when I begin searching for an artist along with my publisher. My editor and I begin scouring the internet, looking everywhere to find the right match. Once we zero in on an artist, that artist is paid to create 3 sample cards. I send them a 3-card script (usually, a Major, Minor and Court Card). They are given a month to complete the 3 cards. Hopefully, its a match. Sometimes, you will know in your belly (I knew with Abigail) that you’ve found the right one. Feels like love at first sight!

Once we secure the artist, the publisher’s art directors and editors are brought in to help supervise our deck creation.

PP: You teach classes and workshops on tarot, magic, often at multi-day conferences or retreats. What do you find the most rewarding aspect is of imparting your knowledge to others? 

SG: I wouldn’t say that I am imparting knowledge as much as I am guiding students toward something inside themselves they knew but perhaps forgot. I love providing immersive experiences, fostering curiosity and inspiring people.

The most rewarding thing? The ability to bring bodies together to form community, getting out of the digital space and diving into a real life, somatic connection. I love the intimacy and emotional impact of transformational work. It’s… magic 🙂

PP: What advice would you give people who are just getting into divination and tarot? Is there a good deck to start out with?

SG: It never hurts to have a Rider Waite Smith deck on hand but the best deck to learn with is the deck you can’t stop looking at! Find a deck you are obsessed with and that’s the best deck to learn with. 

Tarot works best when you treat it as a daily practice. Try to pull a single card every day. The good news? It will only take you a few minutes each day and will actually make your day soooo much more fun and magical.

PP: Do you read speculative fiction? If so, do you have any favorite stories or poetry? Have any of them inspired your work in tarot or other projects? 

SG: Yes, Stephen King is my spiritual author daddy, of course, cause I’m Gen X! Weirdly, his novella, “The Langoliers” haunts me more than any of this other titles. I recently devoured “Mrs.Todd’s Shortcut,” a short story inside of “Skeleton Crew.” Reading it made me feel like a wide-eyed 14 year old again. So. Freakin. GOOD. I specifically drew upon characters and scenes from “The Shining” in my “Tarot of the Haunted House.”

My other favorite author is Jeanette Winterson who is often described as literary fiction but she uses parallel worlds, gorgeous doses of magical realism, skips timelines, and a lyrical poeticism that brings me to me knees. She also writes about Tarot from time to time. My favorites are, well everything she writes, but especially, “The Passion” and “Lighthousekeeping.” 

PP: Tell us a little bit about your podcast Sasha Graham’s Ghost Stories by the Fire. How did it start up and what’s your favorite part about telling ghost stories on air? 

SG: A friend of mine owns a cool, red velvet, vampire style bar called the Barrow’s Intense Tasting Broom out in Brooklyn. They have this cool outdoor fire pit and seating area. His bar manager was keen on doing a literary, spooky story night and invited me to create one. Sasha Graham’s Ghost Stories by the Fire was born!

Ghost Stories is like a creepy Moth storytelling event. I bring audience members out of the audience up to share their spooky stories. I’ve held Ghost Story events all over the US, Canada and next summer, Ghost Stories is heading to Edinburgh Fringe!

The Ghost Stories Pod grew out of my live events. On the pod, I’m a late night public radio host who is broadcasting from an abandoned fire tower in the Catskills. I play a curated selection of stories recorded at my live events. Each episode has a common theme like “Hotel Horror Stories” or “Haunted Road Trips.”

My favorite thing about my Ghost Story events and podcast is that it brings people together and grounds us in our humanity. It doesn’t matter who we are or where we come from, everyone has had things happen to them that they can’t explain away.

Oh, and I love creepy, coziness.

PP: What are you looking forward to the most at BayCon? 

SG: Meeting everyone and feeling the vibe!

PP: You’ve also done some acting in horror films—anything we should check out for a good scare?

SG: For fans of 90’s SOV horror (if you know, you know) check out my 1996 alien flick “Polymorph,” where I play a mafia hit chick whose body is taken over by an evil alien from outer space (streaming on TUBI).

If you like body horror, check out “Side Effects May Vary.” Made in 2024, it is really fun flick based on the “Incredible Melting Man” and I play the doctor (rent on Prime, Fandango, or YouTube).

And for you twisted revenge horror fans, check out 2024’s  “Trivial,” where I play a deranged game show host who does derranged things to her contestants (streaming on TUBI). Brahahahhahaaaa!

A Special Masquerade Interview with Emcee and Guest of Honor Spotted Giraffe

 

Q: What is the origin of your name?

 

My Twitter handle? I’ve always loved giraffes. My dad is East African and we had a lot of giraffe art at home that my parents brought back from there. My favorite book growing up was Gilda the Giraffe (which is why all giraffes are named Gilda duh). My mom also used to say I was “such a giraffe” and it kind of stuck. When I needed to choose a screen name, I picked lyrical_girafe. Giraffe is spelled girafe in French, so you’ll see it that way sometimes. Once I started hanging out in US fandom spaces, people just called me Giraffe and it became my name. I love that something so personal turned into something people recognize me by.

 

Q: Do you have a fandom origin story?

 

I’m not totally sure what that means but I think things really took off when I became a co-host on Strange New Pod. That gave me visibility in the fandom in a new way. The moment that really felt like a shift was when I was asked to cosplay at Star Trek Day. That’s when a lot of people started associating me with the larger Trek community. It was wild and wonderful.

 

Q: Tell us about fandom in France. How does it differ from fandom in the US?

 

I wasn’t super involved in fandom when I lived in France. People are definitely passionate about shows and movies but it’s a bit more understated. I left France 20 years ago so I can’t speak to what it’s like now but I did go to one of the first Paris Comic Cons and it was full-on Star Wars. I guest on Le Quadrant Pop, which is one of the few French Star Trek podcasts out there. There’s a lot of great conversation happening but cosplay still feels pretty niche. I am starting to see more and more French cosplayers online though. They’re all a lot younger than me but I love seeing that excitement grow.

 

Q: When did you start cosplaying? What do you love about it? Who are some of your favorite characters to cosplay as?

 

We didn’t have Halloween in France, so Carnival was the one time you could dress up. My grandmother made me a princess costume and taught me how to sew and that changed everything. I’ve always loved making things but I really got into cosplay after moving to the US. I love the whole process. There’s something so satisfying about seeing a costume on screen and then figuring out how to build it with whatever you have around. I actually love the making part more than wearing it. I tend to go for villains or characters with a little edge because they’re so much fun to play. I also try to cosplay Black characters because when I was a kid, there just weren’t many, and it matters to see yourself in the story.

 

Q: Where did your love of Star Trek stem from? What are your favorite versions of Star Trek?

 

It all started with Uhura. She showed me that I could be powerful, smart, beautiful, and still look like myself. That meant everything. I’ve always been drawn to 1960s style and my grandparents’ house had furniture and wallpaper straight out of that era. I was in love with the vibe from the start. And honestly I love every version of Star Trek. When I want comfort I watch Voyager. When I need inspiration I go for Discovery. When I want to laugh I put on Lower Decks. When I’m designing or dreaming up something new, I watch TOS. It all speaks to me in different ways.

 

Q: If you could pitch a Star Trek show or film, what would your pitch look like?

 

I would love a Star Trek political drama set on Romulus. Think The West Wing meets Andor meets Rome. Give me all the intrigue, the strategy, the alliances, and the betrayals. That’s the show I want to watch.

 

Q: Tell us about your journey becoming the co-host of Strange New Pod.

 

It all started with me being a patron and popping into the chat during the live shows. I guess I made enough of an impression that I got invited on as a guest and then it just kind of grew from there. I never expected to be a podcaster but it turns out it’s not that different from teaching. I just get to talk about the things I love with people who love them too.

 

Q: Do you have any current or future projects you’d like to share with our attendees?

 

Honestly I can’t think beyond San Diego Comic Con right now. That’s the big focus and once it’s over I’ll figure out what’s next. In the meantime, I’m really excited about my birthday plan. I’m going to Medieval Times for the first time and my friends and I are learning corsetry so we can make our own Renaissance dresses. It’s going to be ridiculous and so much fun. I also made a Tiefling cosplay just to meet the cast of Baldur’s Gate at LA Comic Con… There’s always something brewing! 

 

Q: How many Ferengi does it take to screw in a light bulb?

 

One. But you’ll get billed separately for the bulb, the labor, the ladder, the wear and tear on the ladder, and the inconvenience of showing up. Rule of Acquisition 239: Never do anything for free.

Written by

Related Posts

Interview with M.A. Carrick

Q: I guess the obvious question to ask is how you came about teaming up to write books together under the pseudonym M.A. Carrick. You met on an archeological dig in Wales and Ireland, which it seems inspired the name. What pulled you two together to decide to write...

read more

Interview with the ‘Aceys

PP: What were some of your earliest fandoms/your fandom origin story? What does fandom mean to you? Stacey Meyn: Both sets of parents were/are into sci-fi, fantasy, and literature. My dad was a librarian and read the writings of Níkos Kazantzákis aloud while holding...

read more

0 Comments

Discover more from BayCon 42 / Westercon 78

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading